Thursday 29 October 2020

Holiday? What holiday?

 Hello, Lovelies!

I hope you are all keeping safe and well out there? I know many of you ( myself included ) are feeling Covid fatigue, wondering when, or if, life as we knew it will ever return. It will, but just a little differently I'm sure. For one, I think my perception about being around large groups of people has forever changed. I'll always feel a little uneasy, wondering when the next tiny invisible enemy will pounce! Naturally, I already tend to be a bit germaphobic, and anxious but my down-time over the past few weeks gave me a moment to take a breath and recalibrate my position in relation to everything that has transpired. 

It was a lot to take in. The enormity of this global pandemic is overwhelming and I realised it would only be at some point in the future, perhaps two or three years down the line, that we'd properly be able to integrate this experience. My conclusion for the time being: it is what it is. In the meantime, I am trying to live through this time consciously ( otherwise known as WOKE! 😆 ). Taking each day in both hands and doing the best with what I have, creating order, beauty, and joy. For me: fresh flowers, lighting candles, tidying clutter, listening to music ( not news channels ), using the good china, making healthy food, freshly painted walls, cleaning the roof gutters, skyping my kids, having fun on social media sharing funny memes and videos, zooming with a friend across the big pond, indoor air-cleansing plants, mucking around in the garden, taking many, many, many long walks in the woodlands of Cape Town. Like a mantra I chant under my breath; be grateful, be thankful, be kind. Practise makes perfect and the practice of appreciation and gratitude is ALSO so much harder to feel than to say. Especially when things spiral downwards rather than the opposite way. I happened upon this beautiful poem which moved me and made so much sense right now. Just watching Miss Augusta sleep peacefully in a sun-patch brings me a feeling of peace and contentment.

My grandmother once gave me a tip:

In difficult times, you move forward in small steps.
Do what you have to do, but little by little.
Don't think about the future, or what may happen tomorrow.
Wash the dishes.
Remove the dust.
Write a letter.
Make a soup.
You see?
You are advancing step by step.
Take a step and stop.
Rest a little.
Praise yourself.
Take another step.
Then another.
You won't notice, but your steps will grow more and more.
And the time will come when you can think about the future without crying."
- Elena Mikhalkova





One of my surprise revelations is that I am unable to " holiday ". I'm incapable of truly incorporating the concept of "holiday" into a workable situation without becoming antsy! Then I remembered ( since teenhood ) that I dreamed of doing what I love so that I would never have to work a day in my life, and that home would/should be where all of this happened. Like in the old days. My Scottish Granny had a fish and chip shop. She and my Grandfather lived upstairs and the shop was downstairs. Honestly, it does make sense, don't you think? Of course, that brings me to my latest ( and final ) cowl pattern which I have called Woodland. Homage to my beloved woodlands and the many walks I take there but also, to my little studio space, at home, which is an enormous luxury I am SO VERY grateful for.

The Woodland Cowl is a "holiday" make, haha. Also, it's Tapestry crochet in teeny sc's! Definitely not my forte if you've made any of my other patterns. But what a fun and absorbing technique! I learned quite a few tricks along the way about how to Tapestry crochet in the round which, of course, I share with you in the pattern. ALSO, it's definitely doable for an Adventurous Beginner. There are detailed video instructions throughout ( as always )...so you cannot go wrong! The things we do and learn on HOLIDAY, right? 😆 PS: I made the cowl longer in height so that it can comfortably fit over your mouth and nose ( best over a mask! ).








Our GIVEAWAY today is the Woodland Cosy Cowl. I'll be giving away 10 copies of the pattern! All you need to do is remember to add your Ravelry name if you do comment below. BUT THERE'S MORE! Three of our winners will also get a copy of Noelene's gorgeously cute Sweet Strawberry Tassel pattern!


Lovelies, as always, I wish you well, I wish you love and joy and peace!

Take care,

💓 Jen

And as usual, Roxy insists on having the last pic. 😆






64 comments:

  1. Hello Jen. So lovely to read your blog once again. I have had to say goodbeye to my gran this week, after 93 years on earth she has gone to be with God and all her loved ones in heaven. Of over 20 grandkids etc I am the only one who inherited her love of crochet and it was so special to share in that with her, by introducing her to your beautiful work. On your quote, I recently learnt something at the e-learning education summit."Practise make progress" as we will never be perfect.. and it fits so completely with the step by step analogy. Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories with us. Much love
    nicolakretzschmar

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing, Nicola! I'm so very sorry to read about your Gran but so happy your will continue her wonderful lagacy of crochet! As far as I know I too am the only grandchild who continues my Grandmothers crochet legacy. Although she taught me to knit, not crochet but she was a prolific crocheter. Take care, happy weekend... and sending a big hug your way. xox

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    2. I am sorry Nicola, hope your gran is watching over you with every stitch you make. Hugs

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  2. Oh wow Jen! You put into words perfectly how I have been feeling these past few months. I am normally an extremely organized person but since March, I have not been able to plan ahead, which is quite frustrating! 2020 was all organised, daughter's BF was flying out for her university graduation, holidays were booked and paid for, hair and nail appointments made in advance..... well, that plastic year planner has been turned upside down and now serves as a large placemats for my 5 Yorkies to have their meals on! I am slowly emerging from my now disorganized life and taking baby steps in planning for 2021. Thank you for your wonderful words and all your wonderful patterns which keep me sane! Ravelry: SandyLubbe

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    1. Oh my goodness, Sandy...that made me laugh out loud just imagining your monthly planners serving a different purpose. But SO VERY APT! :D Baby steps, for sure...we are all re-learning to walk in a new normal. We need to keep in touch with each others progress, so as to help one another along, right? Happy weekend, stay sane! :D xox

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  3. I am so over 2020 and it's not been a roller coaster of ups and downs for me. Only my Cat,Dog,Bears and Crochet are keeping me sane. Ravelry Id dizzy21

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    1. BEARS!!!??? You HAVE to tell me more about that! xxx

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  4. Keeping it simple. I like that:)

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    1. It's seems to be the only option that does work. :D Happy weekend! xx

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  5. Hello, a newbie here from Australia. I’ve only recently discovered your inspirational colours & work & I’ve almost finished the Nomad Cowl. My Ravelry name is Humoor & I hope you & yours stay safe & well.

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    1. Thank you, Mary and welcome to the Hooks n Tales adventures! :D I hope you've joined our FAB group over on FB? Our wonderful Admin is Noelene who lives in Western Australia. :) xx

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  6. Hi, Jen, Thank you for your words, I enjoyed them while sipping coffee, in my favourite spot, seeing the water in the canal twirling and people rushing off to work.
    My condolences to nicolakretzschmar. How lovely you 'inherited' the love of crochet <3 (like I did from my gran).
    What an encouraging poem, wonderful last sentence.
    Enjoy the weekend, everybody, stay safe and as healthy as possible. I hope that there will be time for creativity.
    Lots of love from Finou, The Hague, Holland

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    1. Oh, Finou, that sounds lovely...sipping your coffee while gazing at the canal and people rushing off to work. I lived in the Netherlands for 5 years, in Amsterdam Zuid-oost ( Diemen )...it was outside of the city and I so loved to take my little son walking, or riding my bike with him on the back, beside the canals. When I first arrived in Holland, I lived on the Prinzegracht, right by the canal, so I can "see" your wrods. :D I hope somehow, our beloved grandmothers know the good they did when they taught us to crochet! Happy weekend! xox

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  7. Thanks, Jen. Yes I have joined the FB group & will try & post my finished Cowl there next week!

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    1. Oh, excellent! I'm looking forward to see you there! xx

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  8. Hi Jen, it's so good to read your blog post again. Wow, It's so amazing that even in your break, you still able to create another lovely piece. ♡♡ By the way, As a stay at home mom with three little girls, I kinda understand about the holiday revelation.:D.
    And the covid fatigue is so true.
    I also stopped watching and listening to news channels since they escalate my anxiety. I'm grateful though that I have crochet to keep my mind away from the anxiety. Thank you for the beautiful experience, stories and adventures, Jen. I wish you a lovely weekend.
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    Yunsup

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    1. And I was a stay at home to three little boys! I miss those days! And exactly...holidays? What holidays? LOL!! Oh, thank goodness for crochet...which is apt no matter the day, right? "Do what you love so you never have to work a day in your life! Nevermind that you'll never have a holiday either! "... heehee! Happy weekend and big hugs to you and your little ones. xox

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  9. Hi, this color full cowls make me happy! Would like to make them for my family and, off course for myself 😃
    My ravelry name is Beabo62.
    I hope that you create Moore of this Colour full things!
    Stay safe and healthy 💐♥️

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words! We all love rainbows, right? Happy weekend! xxx

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  10. Hello.. I'm a beginner and I wanted to tell you how much I admire your work. My ravelry name is ReaAntony83

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    1. Hi Rea...I hope your name comes up in the draw next Friday! Take care! xx

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  11. Missed you, the new crowel is beautiful. My ravelry name is n2qbq znc hopd your holiday was great.]

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    1. Aw, Mary Ann, I was itching to get back to blogging and chatting with all you Lovelies again. Happy weekend and hugs! xxo

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  12. hej Jen <3 I hope you come well thrue it all , I live the way the poem says and i am grateful for the Life i live. I love to read your posts here, beauty and Deepness , thats you, wonderful
    wish you all the Best
    Darts Finland on Ravelry

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    1. Ah, Darts, always lovely to see you here! I hope all your harvesting is complete and that you are sitting in front of the fire crocheting all the pretty things? Yes, indeed...it's my biggest challenge, trying to live a simple life in the city...when there is so much noise and traffic and business but I do my best! Take care, dear Darts. Sending a big hug! xox

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  13. Hello Jen. Beautiful cowl and the colours are georgeous. I alredy made Nomad Cosy cowl and I really love it. Hello to everyone and stay safe.
    Raverly: JanjaD

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    1. Thank you so much...it was really a fun and absorbing project. I think working in sc's does that to you. You have to concentrate and that really makes for great "crochet meditation"...a bit of respite from the craziness "out there". Happy weekend! xx

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  14. It's surprising just how quickly this is starting to become normal - even the complete lack of income.. I know what you mean about sleeping cats! I can't stop myself giving them a cuddle - much to their annoyance! Take care x. (dbooo)

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    1. I know, right! It's a very strange and unsettling time and we have no option but to move through it as best we can. Cats help. And of course, crochet! xxx

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  15. Hello Jen !

    I am big fan of yours work. You are very much generous with your time and knowledge ❤️
    Thank you for sharing your master pieces with Us.

    My Raverly ID : CrochetVilla75

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  16. Strange enough the COVID gave me the last push to change my life. I was called back from duty to my base hospital. I found out I am not fit for the demand of modern medicine and look on the patient. My thought of care is not the modern thought. The machine, the medication, while for me it's the human. So I go with early retirement. I can do with less so life is good. The COVID showed me so much of my surroundings too, the little small things that matter. No running around. Isolation gave me so much insight. Time to process all what happened in my life, reflection. 45 days until the big change Jen! Thanks for your lovely insight the cowls and other magnificent work. Big hug.

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    1. What you say is exactly how it's been for me too, a time of deep reflection and changes! I am so looking forward to your early retirement! We'll see more of you then? :D Big hug right back! XOX

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    2. Absolutely, you will see more of me XOX

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  17. Oh,another beautiful pattern, Raverly name is kathyverrier, Thank you Jen for another chance to win this.

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    1. Hello, Kathy! Thank you so much! I hope you are well? Happy weekend! xxx

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  18. I love your blog posts Jen. It's also somewhat comforting to read all the comments and see that it doesn't seem to matter where in the world you are, we're all feeling this fatigue. Kepp "holiday-ing" however you need to. As long as you feel refreshed at the end of it, you can't do it wrong, lol.
    Lenaknits

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    1. Absolutely, Lena! I feel the same! Happy weekend and sending a hug your way. xox

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  19. These are beautiful as all of your patterns are!
    stuckoncrochet

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    1. Thank you so much, I appreciate your kind words! Happy crocheting! :D xx

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  20. Beautiful pattern, Ravelry name is MisColores, Thank you for another chance to win this beautiful work of art.

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    1. You're welcome! I hope your name pops out of the hat! Take care. xx

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  21. Your recent cowl patterns are amazing! I'm thinking they would be perfect for a mixed stripe blanket if made wide enough (and not in the round of course! Lol) ... Hmmm, would just need to figure out a repeat number!
    Thanks for your giveaways!
    Ravelry ID: kjprice

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    1. Thank you, Kris! I'm thinking along those lines as well. Just not sc's...that would take me forever! :D Happy weekend! xx

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  22. Beautiful as usual! My Ravelry name is Sweepea1020

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    1. Thank you so much, Sweepea! Happy weekend to you! xx

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  23. So in love with tapestry and mosaic crochet right now. Your cowl is AWESOME!!! Can't wait to get started on it. Never was a cowl wearer, but with the mask mandate, they seem the perfect solution to hiding that little fact of life :) Thank you Jen

    id - clashhewhe

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    1. Exactly! They work really well for that! I wasn't a cowl wearer before but I've made use of mine. It's getting a little too warm now to wear them but this is Cape Town afteral...4 seasons in one day!:D Happy weekend, Sher! xx

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    2. I've just re-read your Grandmother's advice and had to comment about how profound it is. Very wise words to take to heart. Thank you for sharing Jen.

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  24. Love it and I´m not a fan of cowls normally ;) Ravelry: NinaMayer

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  25. welcome back jen 😍 as someone living in a country that is no longer in lockdown I feel bad for you all it must be maddening to still be stuck at home thank goodness for crochet to keep everyone sane 🥰 lots of love and keep safe x
    ravelry: DaliaAdel

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    1. Hello, Dalia! Luckily we are not in a hard lockdown. Everything is open but masks must be worn. Our numbers were dropping dramatically but over the past two weeks they are climbing up again. Everyone is mostly cautious. I shop for groceries online still. Things look the same but they aren't really, are they? Take care, stay safe! xox

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  26. Hello my dear friend Jen. Not only do I love your patterns but I l;ove reading your blog. What wonderful tip's your grandmother gave you and thank you for sharing it with us. 2020 year had its great times, spending time with my grandson and in 2 weeks my grand daughter will be born, then the bad time's as you know my health got so bad I ended up in the hospital for too long. From my grandmother I learned to thank God every day for everything, and to pray first for all the people in the world then put my family second, my grandmother would say God watche's over you so pray first for all the people who no one prays for. As you know well living in a village on a island is peaceful. No lockdown over here in my country this time around but we all still protect ourselfs. I have my garden, my crochet my wonderful hubby and my walks up the mountain or to the beach where I dont see anyone, its just me and my dog Steve, hubby comes along if he is not bussy. Take care sweetie. Hug's Sofia ( wisdom61 Ravelry name)

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  27. Hi Jen! I have missed your Friday blogs! Glad to hear you had a great holiday :) Your summary of this year is so spot on and I share your perception of large gatherings at the moment, I have become quite the germophobe myself these days... LOVE these cowls, think its time I knuckle down and make one!Have a lovely weekend, welcome back! Take care and stay safe xxx

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  28. I love your blog post Jen. And I love seeing Roxy model your cowls. Ravelry name is cksteffen.

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  29. Oh Jen, you blog is so comforting to me because I feel just the same as you do (I imagine lots of people do). I got tears in my eyes, reading it. It is really a sad time for me because my my boss decided t stop his enterprise, next year october. Financially it does not have a large impact for my because I will be a pensionada by then, but it is such a wonderful place te be fo me and many other people. So we shed a tear or two.
    by the way, I love all your cowls. Already made two of them. Hop to win this one, but if not, i'll probably buy is, they are such ovely patterns to make. Well Jen stay safe and sound and take care. My ravelry name is liahartman.

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  30. Loving your work and enjoying your blog. MSMSRD2 Raverly

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  31. What a lovely dazzling cowl. I adore it. Adding this to my to do list. Ravelry: lindyaj

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  32. Gorgeous work as always Jen! I always love so much any Grandma wisdom. My Grandmother was very dear to me - we were so alike - and I have always wanted to be like her. Thank you for sharing what you found. I get my love of making from both sides of my family - I'm surrounded and blessed, though most are gone now.
    Lovely to read your post and see the new patterns! https://www.ravelry.com/people/RobWillson

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  33. A break refreshes the soul, your Grandma must have been a very wise soul
    Ravelry: Grannyl3

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  34. So sorry to hear about your Grandma Jen - thinking of you! Grandmas are very special aren’t they? Love your new cowl- it’s stunning 😍
    Ravelry name Manxcathy

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  35. Beautiful words and so appropriate at this time, love your cowl must give it a try, but coming into summer and i have a wedding shawl to make, that is top of my list. wonder if i could add a tassel ? raverly name firethread

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  36. I'm hooked on your crochet designs. Thank you for sharing your talent. Revelry name: MariaParrishOtt

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